Monday, May 16, 2011

Ten rules to deal with awkward

Ten rules to deal with awkward one, to blush, but not flustered
calm, and then calm. When the sudden appearance of embarrassment when the inevitable moment of the blush though, but definitely not heart panic. That neither complement at all, and easy to make others feel weak.
Second, do not easily justified, the sooner the more easily recognize and admit the understanding
three people, the courage of self-mockery
embarrassing situation has been inevitable since the , it should come up with enough courage to face reality, or even directly to an embarrassing challenge.
four timing is right. The awkward moments into opportunities for self-promotion deal with the situation
good adaptable not only to the embarrassment of not less embarrassing, but also provides rare opportunities for self-expression. Li Jun has been a member of an unknown company, in an introduction to the new leadership of the company, he mistakenly read the wrong name, general manager, was a quiet spot anomalies, general manager of sour expression. He sensed immediately after the turn to introduce themselves, so much, he added:
V. play the fool charge Leng, set the dilemma in the invisible visible ignorance among the million
this is cheeky side with the spirit. It can easily be discarded out of embarrassment imposed Everyone knows that fool always be people laugh, but not embarrassing moment, because no fresh anything silly fool, he did not care. Although we do not really want to try to fool, but in particular when using some special methods to de-risk what is wrong about this predicament?
Six, quickly evacuated
untouchables hide under the covers, the Sanshiliuji go for the best. If you do not have the courage and ability to cope with embarrassment appears the best choice for you is to leave the scene quickly, the sooner the better. For those born timid but very sensitive to the people, to anticipate the likelihood of an embarrassing or awkward situation when there are signs of sales when to get out, it is admirable merit. Zhang Li and then a big force in the face if not they are just a gust of wind fills.
seven, will be counted on the meter, the disadvantage into advantage and disadvantages
Lee has always been relatively speaking, just find the key points, the disadvantage into advantage not failed. The work of a female secretary who had just, there is nothing more than to work the first letter after the two sent the wrong address, there is more embarrassing it? However, the 24-year-old Miss Liu aware of the situation immediately after the call to apologize to the customer and the customer refused to play the day after the phone continuously, and finally touched each other. The two customers to know her through this serious working attitude, after the company's business has always come through her contacts.
eight, transfer embarrassing
medical pain of the so-called shifting law that when a difficult conquest of suffering to be easier to conquer the pain of another alternative, the The former is often painful suffering in the latter gradually lost its original role of pain, this method is also applied to the embarrassing moments of self-regulation. Of course, there is another form of transfer of embarrassment, is to transfer to the spectator who embarrassed, but must note that the embarrassment of your transfer should be good opportunities for the manufacture of a joke.
nine, pretending to psychological vulnerability
widespread sympathy for the weak, the embarrassing moments you should immediately appear to make a radical reaction, can be a deeply regret it, it can be excessive distress. In short, you must let the people look extremely fragile psychological, as if things have been unduly hurt your self-esteem. In general, people see your
ten, be strong to cope with embarrassing counter
This is the most prudent approach should be. He must first consider the identity of the object, followed by the environment, is back once again the strength of grasp. Because of embarrassment itself is not staggering problem, at best, a fault, so decided to fight back before the counterattack must engage in to understand what purpose their own. If the counter result is freed themselves and hurt others, it is best to give up; if the result is happy back then try. These results directly reflect the party against the other person's efforts to understand and counter the precision grasp. Only one purpose: self-interest does not harm others.

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