Zi Gong asked: There is no one to pursue life-long to the wise words, cultivation of the truth of life can be summarized in one sentence? Confucius put forward at this time, feel imagine the feelings of others, that is, the saying goes, the thought of what I want, we should also think about whether this thing is people want even more than I need something.
Practice Forgiveness of Zigong such people is particularly important because of his mm talent in the Confucian disciples, Zi Gong Feats most prominent. He not only business, is a successful businessman in politics, foreign affairs, he is an outstanding talent. and often it is easy to make a man of talent The following can not forgive someone else's fault, so Confucius taught Zigong Forgiveness to have a particularly deep meaning. often deal with things the way for others, the effect is not satisfied. but if changed to deal with our own, not necessarily to the person than the original good. This root of the problem lies in the hearts of the people have a paranoid idea that require people to be able to successfully doing things, ask a friend, colleagues, leadership is without shortcomings, everything good. In fact, this is a very selfish mentality, because we are the requirements of others are their own inner standards and the need for standards . If you really want to implement Forgiveness, we must change our selfish, stubborn, narrow Fengyun strong heart. This also shows the difficulty of the implementation of Tolerance and Forgiveness. future generations to explain Forgiveness, the such as feel that others are not, understand him, this is to others, tolerant people, in fact, his forgiveness and tolerance.
seventeenth century painter Wang Shimin Author of a couplet: means generous, wide and, forgiveness, tolerance. It says the Alliance is, virtue is from culture of tolerance, forgiveness, width and quality of accumulated under. second line called blessings, blessings. do not read people Jiuwu, three to Germany to support also can be much harm. bad heart, do not change. these three principles of life, not only can develop their own character, is also attracting unexpected disaster can be avoided.
in today's materialistic, the phrase is not, and to fight. Some time ago a news report said there was a pregnant woman in the bus due to quarrel, to be punched and kicked the last to be kicked in the door, this is really an outrage evil. forgiveness is rare in our society how the quality of ah! we have heard more than once, similar to the famous aphorism: the most valuable virtues of life is forgiveness. Indeed, because the character behind forgiveness is the role of intelligence in the development effort .
the wrath of ordinary people for their own people, often over and over in my heart a thousand, said: hatred can not make any damage to the other side, but inside their own hand, so can not rest a moment. So we can say, hatred, anger, it is the world's most stupid act of self-punishment.
, but once you forgive from the heart others, that it will be happy yourself. You see, happiness is so simple that no foreign objects to giving, without any external forces, but your mind a turn, people can be happy. It also showed how happy it Since the heart is to the desire. Buddha said that if a person's happiness came from the wish of someone else, then this person went house to house begging beggar than a much more painful. Buddha told his disciples: points to stay that there is a way: away from the bad pratyaya. is to see people who do not like to stay away from him, and not provoke him. to first Duane edge, everything go well Some will.
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